If you are one of the millions of guys who believe that you cannot get a girlfriend because of some aspect of your physical appearance, this article is for you. You have probably carried the weight of this load for a long time. You’ve seen your friends have girls and you’ve probably established the belief that, because of your appearance, having a woman in your life is not your “destiny.”

If this sounds familiar, you are not alone. In fact, you would be surprised how many men share the same suffering. Statistics say that 20% of the boys get 80% of the girls. Some would believe that this only further supports the notion that physical appearance is important and that unattractive people are destined to live a life of loneliness and pain. But as a man who struggled with his own limitations when it came to women, I can tell you that there is hope. The truth is that being unattractive in some way can go a long way toward attracting girls. Impossible you say? Well I’m telling you, it’s not!

The thing to keep in mind is that when it comes to women, appearance doesn’t matter that much. I know it sounds like a lie, but I tell you it is the truth. Yes, looks will help a handsome boy get a foot in the door, but they will only get him so far. Women are attracted to VALUE, nothing more and nothing less. If you can show a woman that you have great value, she will be attracted to you no matter what you look like or what disabilities you have. I’ve seen midget, crippled, and even legless dudes pull hot chicks. And the only difference between you and them is that they didn’t think the same way as you. They believed they had something to offer their daughters, and consequently they reflected that belief in everything they thought, did, and said.

So this is how you do it: imagine that women have the ability to see through you. They can look at you and immediately tell what is happening inside of you. They can see your beliefs through body language, your insecurities from the way your eyes move, and even your level of self-esteem just from the tone of your voice. The funny thing is, most women don’t know how they know it, they just know it. So when a man can present these attractive qualities, he will literally become the most handsome man they have ever seen, and regardless of any physical limitations he may have, women will sleep with him.

What’s more, when you can show women that you have high self-esteem despite being fat, ugly, or with a disability, they will actually be MORE attracted to you than a handsome guy with the same level of self-esteem. Why? Because just like the peacock that survives despite the limitations of its huge tail, they will see that you have the inner strength to overcome the social definitions of attractive and unattractive and that you have high self-esteem despite it. This is EXTREMELY attractive to women, and this is why some really ugly guys have some of the hottest chicks out there. It is about your belief system.

To learn how to change your beliefs, you will have to do serious work. I’m not going to sit here and lie to you and tell you that it will be easy; it will not. But what I will tell you is that it is possible. Seriously motivated to attract hot girls, I have seen guys emerge from the deepest depths to become seduction machines. You will have to work on the way you speak to yourself, your body language, your internal belief systems, and most of all, your self-esteem.