The mindset of a lover is a dark place. In fact, it is true. How can I know? I was a mistress, am I proud? Resonant, no! Did I learn something? Yes absolutely! Years have passed and I realized that “love” was not the main reason why people fall in love with him. I think it’s more into her ego. They want to show the world that by using their physical and sexual attractiveness, they will be able to find a partner who truly “loves” them and is willing to give up their family for them. House destroyers will never win. Not today, not tomorrow, not in life.

Regardless of how some immoral “lucky” women have just proven capable of ruining a family. They’re lucky? I do not think. When you date a married man and he leaves his wife for you, you enter a world of lies. Admitting the fact that he cheated on you means that he has the ability to cheat on you along the way. That has been tested. No relationship has ever succeeded from a bad start.

Being a lover, you only need one thing, and that is attention. The problem is that you are too focused on the wrong goal. There are many ways people can notice it; you’re too blind to tell because you want attention and you think it’s possible when you flirt with someone.

Let’s use Facebook posts as an example, most of us will only post the prettiest photos. Additionally, we omit photos that are “unflattering” to our viewers. Why? Because again, we want the attention. Don’t forgive me here.

For those lovers who made it to the finish line (break up), you should be the happiest woman now. You just got rid of a nightmare. Always remember that you are special and deserve the best. Never settle for being a maintenance. There is a big difference between being a “husband” and a “FuBu”. Strive to be a “sposable.” Respect yourself, love yourself and save yourself for those who are worth it.

One thing I learned from this is that you will never move forward until you accept and learn from your mistakes. Accept that you were once a homewrecker. Accept that you almost ruined the life of a child or children. Accept that everyone hates the mistress.

Remember, there is a big difference between fidelity and loyalty. A faithful person is someone who does not have time to be attracted to others; his attention is exclusively for the one he really loves. On the contrary, a loyal person is someone who is still attracted to others, appreciates beauty and flirts in some way, but knows where his heart belongs. So who are you going to be with?